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[All] Controversy over Kim Ha-neul's father forcing Jang Won-young to visit? (ft. Father's Instagram, Dotax posts)
2025.02.13 12:14
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Kim Ha-neul's father's remarks amid the tragic incident are causing controversy. From Jang Won-young's request for condolences to her past online activities, we've compiled the issues that are currently being discussed hotly in the community.
1. Did Kim Ha-neul's father force Jang Won-young to visit her?
As the entire nation is shocked by the elementary school student murder case in Daejeon, the father of the victim, Kim Ha-neul, is requesting condolences from Ive's Jang Won-young, sparking controversy.
Kim Ha-neul is said to have really liked Jang Won-young when she was alive. So her father asked, "I hope Won-young, whom Ha-neul missed, comes to the funeral." However, as this statement spread online, it turned into a controversy that "the bereaved family forced Jang Won-young to pay her respects."
On SNS, there was a heated debate between "Isn't this coercion?" and "It was just a request," and eventually, Kim Ha-neul's father personally explained, "It wasn't coercion, it was just a request."
However, with comments like "Shouldn't you go to pay your respects" already posted on Jang Won-young's Instagram, it seems like the controversy won't die down easily.
2. Kim Ha-neul's father's past online activities, adding to the controversy?
But here, another controversy has erupted. It is because of Kim Ha-neul's father's past online activities.
According to a Twitter user, Kim Ha-neul's father was an active user on the Daum cafe 'Dotax' for 20 years.
The community is famous for being a male-oriented site, and the controversy arose when comments left in the past were unearthed.
The contents of Kim Ha-neul's father's comment that was revealed on Twitter are as follows.
- Content related to girlfriend's breast evaluation
- An article telling you to use contraception well if you don't want to have two children like me
- Other typical Korean male community style posts
As these past posts spread, reactions such as, "Is this the kind of person who forced Jang Won-young to pay her respects?" and "Even if she is a bereaved family member, her past actions cannot be erased." As the controversy grew, it was reported that Kim Ha-neul's father deleted all of the relevant posts.
3. To what extent is it appropriate to request condolences?
The most important point in this controversy is where the line between the feelings of the bereaved family and the moral responsibility required of public officials lies.
Of course, it would be a great comfort to parents if a celebrity their child liked while alive came to visit. However, the problem is that the controversy grew as this request became public. Paying condolences is ultimately a personal choice, but when a celebrity is mentioned, the burden on fans increases.
In fact, due to this controversy, comments such as "Why aren't you going?" and "Can't you come just once?" are being posted on Jang Won-young's Instagram, causing damage to the public figure.
4. What is the public reaction?
"I guess I could ask as a parent. But was it really necessary to tell the press about this?"
"What did Jang Won-young do wrong... It's her choice whether to go to pay her respects or not, but I really hate the atmosphere of being forced."
"They say they didn't force her, but Jang Won-young is already feeling a huge burden."
“Looking at my father’s past actions, it’s true that… it’s uncomfortable.”
As this is a regrettable incident, we need to respect the victims and their families, but at the same time, we need to be careful not to create an atmosphere that burdens public figures. I hope Jang Won-young doesn't get caught up in this controversy and receive unnecessary malicious comments and criticism.
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- y8Zebra997
사실 아이가 죽었는데 누가 와줬으면 좋겠고 이런거 생각할 겨를이 있나;;; 싶은 맘은 있지만 아이를 잃은 슬픔을 누가 대신해 줄 수 있겠어요;;;;;;;
- sjNarwhal707
맞아요 하늘이 아버지 슬퍼할시간도 부족할 것 같은데...
- kiZonkey901
하늘이 추모는 안하나요? 언급하는게 다 방향성이 이상하더라고요
- sjNarwhal707
맞아요 하늘이 추모가 우선이되어야 하는데..
- jiCoyote924
부모 입장에서 글을 쓸 수 있다고는 생각이 듭니다 그러나 가는 것은 쉬운 일이 아니지요
- jkHippopotamus634
지금 뭔가 초점이 잘못 잡힌 것 같아요 어쨌든 자식을 잃은 부모인 거잖아요.. 그런 상황에서 저런 과거로 욕 먹는다면 세상이 너무 가혹한 것 같아요. 이건 아니라고 봅니다. 그리고 범죄 수준의 댓글도 아닌데 왜 이렇게 일반인을 특히 피해자의 가족을 괴롭히는지?... 요즘에 사람들 이상합니다.
- seLizard381
아이를 위해 부탁은 했을수도 있겠죠 근데 강요 아니라고 알고 있습니다
- 무엇이나를
조문 강요가 아니라고 하더라고요 간곡하게 부탁했다고.. 고인의 명복을 빕니다
- wlChinchilla395
조문강요는 좀 아니죠 그냥 따님이 안타까워요
- kiChinchilla900
부담스럽게 왜이렇게 언급할까요? 자식추모나 하면 될일이지요
nago1010근데 연예인 언급이 정말 뜬금 없었어요 ㅋㅋ 그런 뜻은 아니라니 다행인데~
- seHedgehog609
와달라고 한 거는 그래도 맞더라구요 강요라기 보다 부탁이라고 생각합니다
- 단팥빵
너무 슬퍼서 뭐라도 해주고픈 마음에 나온 말 같아요 뭐든 안해주고 싶겠어요 ㅠㅠ
- biSeal289
좀 과한 요청사항이지싶네요 본인 말한마디가 뉴스에 다뜨는데요
- blBaboon656
강요는 아니지만 거론하면서 부탁은 했죠 받아들이능 사람마다 차이가 있는 것 같아요
uto4489딸을 위해서 뭐라도 해주고 싶은 마음이시겠죠.. 그냥 안타깝네요ㅠ
- dkStarfish511
부담주는 멘트인거같아요 정신없어도 이성챙기면 좋겠네요
- cjGorilla396
말이 나온것자체가 본질이 흐려지는것같아서 안타까워요~~ 인터뷰 그만하셨으면~~ㅠㅠ
- 네버다이
왜 원영이한테 이러는지.. 원영이랑 소속사는 정말 난감할거같아요
- soOstrich404
자꾸 거론하는건 불편하죠 안하면 좋을 행동이네요
- jiGazelle389
이상한 누리꾼들을 욕해야지 발언 자체가 강요하는 뉘앙스도 아닌데